Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Last summer in the woods

This time last year I was making my way through the hot desert region of Southern California. I was hiking hard and moving north. My goal? Make it to the Canadian border before the snow fell. I thought I had it in me. I thought success in that endeavor was fully guaranteed. Never did I think that I would lose the desire. Lose the drive. Lose the love of the experience. By early July I was headed back to Seattle, going north quickly by car. Passing the mountains and trees that I would have hiked through slowly on foot. I discovered a lonely life in the woods. A life that became increasingly selfish and isolated with each passing day. So I tossed my pack on my back, passed my extra food to those around me, hiked to the top of Mt. Whitney, and then came down to civilization. The summer's hiking adventure was over.

A few months later I moved my life back to Michigan--the state that I had left in haste the year previous. The miles passed in solitude showed me that I wanted to be around those I called friends and those who were family. And it was the best decision I ever made. A few months later I found the woman who will soon be my wife. Instead of embarking on an adventure in the woods lasting a summer I will now undertake the biggest endeavor and most complete thrill with the one most special. Never did I expect all of life's pieces to come together so well.

Tuesday, May 1, 2007

Packing up for a return

Funny how life sometimes goes in large, unexpected circles. Having left Detroit two years ago, I never would have guessed that I'd be returning. Even more of a happy surprise is that I'm returning engaged, completely in love, and ready to build a life with another.